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Still, I see love everywhere. In small acts of selfless compassion, or in people simply being kind to those everyone else ignores.

I’ve always been a reader. Learning to read before finishing kindergarten is a huge point of pride for me. Books offer an escape, not just a place to win but another world to learn about. Since my incarceration, my interest in fiction has dwindled significantly. Now, I want to learn about the real world and find my place in it. This world is a very busy place, and many of my loved ones have not been able to stay in contact. Books give me a sense of comfort. I believe that once I find the knowledge I need to serve my purpose in this lifetime, everything will feel a little less lonely.

I read all kinds of books: neuroscience, philosophy, self-help, and even spiritual growth books. I wish I could say that, at some point in my life, I had someone I could just sit and read with, but I havenโ€™t found that person yet. Still, I see love everywhere. In small acts of selfless compassion, or in people simply being kind to those everyone else ignores. As for romantic love, I guess I want someone I can just be with, without the fear of being hurt. To varying degrees, I think thatโ€™s what we all want: the ability to be ourselves, maybe even find ourselves with someone, and never have to wonder if it’s going to be okay. I donโ€™t expect a perfect fairy tale, but it would be nice to just click with someone. Wouldnโ€™t it be? One thing Iโ€™ve learned is that love is usually something we work at. It doesn’t feel like work because we want to do it. Ultimately, right now Iโ€™m not even looking for love. I just want someone to talk to. Someone I can relate with, or maybe not. A decent conversation about positive, realistic things is hard to find.

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