Escape seems inescapable. Now picture incarceration with an utterly broken heart.
Lost Lover, Lost Freedom
What do you miss most about being outside? Women. Inside, femininity is obscure and rare. The judicial process has the ability to gut the unprepared and we are all unprepared. Once incarcerated, those who live in their own head may fall victim to their surroundings, reality swallowing them because they allow themselves to be enveloped whole.
Escape seems inescapable. Now picture incarceration with an utterly broken heart. If you thought the situation hurt before, attempt completing the process without your lover. Better yet, how about the notion that you’re going through this brutal process, not just without your lover, but because of your lover. I miss conversing with women the most.
Since being separated from all things female, I can now smell perfume through a solid cement wall from hundreds of yards away. Jos always smelled so good, perfume or not. In all likelihood, closure will continue to elude me from now until forever. I still know what I felt for Jos was intense, complete and very real, from the first day to the last. Yeah, she’s forgiven. I’m over it. But there is and always will be a part of me that will resent her forever. And here’s some songs that mean volumes to me. Some are myself and Jos’, while some get me through this incarceration. Call it the soundtrack to the story ‘Lost lover, Lost freedom’. In no particular order of importance. They’re all important to me.
Beck -‘Blue Moon’ and ‘Die Waiting’
Bjork -‘I Go Humble’ and ‘Moon’ (slips remix)
Old Dominion -‘Crazy Beautiful Sexy’
Roxy Music -‘Mother of Pearl’
Blake Sheldon -‘Who are You When I’m Not Looking’
The Clash -‘Police on My Back’
Brothertiger -‘Beyond the Infinite’
Talking Heads -‘This Must be the Place’
Danny Elfman -‘It Only Makes Me Laugh’
Meiko -‘Reasons to Love you’ ‘How Lucky We Are’
Mazzy Star’s -‘Fade Into You’
The Thermals -‘Returning to the Fold’
Mean Things -‘You Make Me Sick’
Voodoo Glowskulls -‘Symbolic’
Dolly Parton -‘Home’
Owl City -‘Vanilla Twilight’ ‘On the Wing’
The Distillers -‘The Hunger’
Incubus -‘The Warmth’
The Sundays -‘Wild Horses’